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2010 C 17th Ordinary Father Kevin J Forsyth

“Ask, Seek, Knock … and Receive” ©

 

          Prayer: encounters with the Divine.  In all the Old Testament there is no encounter with God that is more delightful, even humorous, than the one we heard today.  It is an encounter that conveys a serious yet consoling message about the mercy of God, a.k.a. God’s “amazing grace!”  Here, God is envisioned in human form, unusual for Genesis.  God walks with Abraham – “our Father in faith” - and just like a human King, God takes his servant Abraham into His confidence and shares with him His plan to destroy the city of Sodom, a city whose sin is not only rape, but also the sin of being inhospitable!  That’s right – inhospitable.  These weren’t nice people.  Abraham seems concerned about God’s justice towards the innocent residents of this city, so he begins a bargaining session with God, not unlike some of our own bargaining sessions with God – “Lord, if you let me win the Powerball, I’ll… whatever!”

 

          The model here is a typical Middle Eastern market “haggling over prices” – similar to what will happen at our Attic Treasures tag sale in a few weeks.  Neither side will reveal the “bottom line.”  Step by step the purchaser (Abraham) tests the seller (God) to see how low the price will go.  Push too far and you insult the seller who might immediately end the negotiations; however, push too little and you cheat yourself!  So Abraham haggles with God.  The movement of the story flows from this step-by-step process toward a final agreed-upon number.  The humor in the story arises from the way Abraham conspires to get the number as low as he can.  Notice his move after God agrees to 50.  Abraham doesn’t argue for 45, but suggests the folly of destroying a whole city just because of a mere 5 more guilty sinners, making it difficult for God to settle on 50.  So cleverly, the number is reduced to 45.  Do not think for a moment that God is being out-witted: remember, the wisdom Abraham is using was itself God’s gift to Abraham – and to all of us – in Confirmation.  So, use that gift of wisdom!

 

          Abraham bargains God down to 40, then 30, then 20, and finally 10.  “For the sake of the ten, I will not destroy it.”  Now, given the fact that the city of Sodom is destroyed clearly points to the enormous level of sin and corruption present: not even 10 innocent people could be found!  Can you imagine?  And lest you think harshly of God, the handful that were found, were told to escape the city before the destruction.  The innocent lives will be spared – if they leave the past behind, they will have a future.  Don’t look back!

 

          In the second half of today’s Gospel, Jesus explains that there really is no need to “bargain” with God in our prayer life.  The first of the two images Jesus uses to highlight His points is that of a man who will grant his friend’s request (despite any inconvenience) because of his persistence.  We should likewise not hesitate to petition God for what we need because God will respond, sooner or later.  We should never give up, always be persistent in prayer.  For if our prayer is something we truly need, and that is the key – need – then God will see to our need.  And our persistence in prayer is not with the intent to wear God down, like a nagging child hopes to wear down his parents in a toy store by repeating over and over, “Buy me, buy me.”  (Smile) Celibacy can be a blessing!

 

No, we are persistent in prayer because persistence is a sign of hope.  We only quit praying if we lose hope in the power of prayer.  We quit praying when we give up on God.  Jesus teaches to never give up, never lose hope.  Lost hope brings death to our prayer-life and to our relationship with God.  “Keep hope alive!”  Give over to God, never give up on God! 

 

To assist our prayer, the Lord gives us a three-step prayer process: “Ask and you shall receive.  Seek and you shall find.  Knock and it shall be opened to you.”  Each successive step involves a deeper commitment on our part.

 

          “Ask and you shall receive,” involves placing ourselves in God’s good hands and simply telling God what’s on our mind, something Jesus says God is already keenly aware of.  So why tell God?  Putting our desires into words doesn’t help God but helps us clarify things (“what do I really need?) and hopefully gives us a canvas upon which God can paint His generous response.  In our persistence, if asking doesn’t seem to bring about the desired results, then we need to move to a more involved level:

 

          “Seek and you shall find.”  Get up; get moving: do something!  The Lord helps those who help themselves, right?  Seek!  Maybe God has answered our prayers; maybe we’re just not looking in the right places!  Remember the old song, “Looking for love in all the wrong places?”  Well, start looking in some right places!  We shouldn’t expect God to move mountains while we sit idly by unwilling to get involved in our own lives!  And if our spiritual blindness prevents us from finding that which we seek, then,

 

          “Knock and it shall be opened to you.”  Knock down some of the walls we’ve built between ourselves and God; and the walls we’ve built between ourselves and others.  Knock down some of the obstacles we - or others - have placed in our path to God.  Knock!  (Knock on podium).  Make a little noise!  Let God hear you!  Is it true that the squeaky wheel gets the grease?  Squeak a little!

 

          One sentence from Paul’s Letter stood out loud and clear for me today: “You were raised with Him through faith in the power of God.”  We have heard today from three of God’s greatest spiritual teachers: Abraham, Paul, and Jesus.  They are all telling us the same thing: Believe in the power of God.  Believe in the power of prayer.  The teachers are teaching.  Are the students learning? 

 

In a few moments we will pray together what the Church calls the “Prayers of the Faithful.”  We will pray for some very real concerns for our world and our leaders.  Too many people are hurt, confused, sad or angry.  We need to pray.  But, before we do pray, we should ask ourselves: “Do I believe in the power of God and in the power of prayer?  Do I believe that my prayer can and will have a powerful impact on my life, our nation, and our future?   Do I believe what Jesus said?  “If you, who are wicked, (Jesus is not passing out compliments today, is He?) know how to give good gifts to your (own) children, how much more will the Father in heaven give to those who ask Him?”  So ask, seek, and knock … and be prepared to receive that which we truly need!

 

2010 C 16th Ordinary Father Kevin J Forsyth

“Martha, Martha, Martha!” ©

 

The Gospel story of Martha and Mary; it’s about one sister named Mary preferring to talk to the house-guest instead of helping the other more compulsive sister Martha (Stewart) prepare refreshments for the guest.  Conflict emerges between the two sisters and Jesus seems to side with the one engaging Him in conversation, but there’s more going on here than meets the eye.  Jesus arrives at the house where Martha, Mary and their brother Lazarus live.  Martha welcomes Jesus.  This meant that Lazarus was not home.  If Lazarus were home, he - as the man of the house - would have welcomed Jesus.  Only if no man was home, could a woman welcome a male guest, but she could not engage him in conversation and no man would expect her to do so.

 

Martha’s hospitality is commendable and appreciated.  However, she is upset that Mary is engaging Jesus in conversation – assuming the role of the man of the house.  Martha has a right to expect Jesus – a man – to support her reprimand of her sister Mary.  The Lord’s response is every bit as shocking as Mary’s actions.  Jesus takes the occasion to point out to Martha that, in her zeal to be the perfect hostess, she may have momentarily forgotten why hospitality is important, as she appears to be more concerned with the serving than with the one being served.  In her complaint against Mary, Martha is saying there are things that need to be done and if Mary doesn’t help, the guest – Jesus – will go without.  Jesus is more concerned that Mary not go without – go without hearing His Word.

 

Imagine a similar situation: you are privileged to have a famous writer in your home to discuss her latest book over dinner.  As host, you are so concerned that everything be done right that you end up spending most of the night in the kitchen.  You’ve missed the author’s words of wisdom, which were, after all, the purpose of the gathering in the first place.  The meal was only the scenery; it wasn’t the script.

 

Don’t miss the fact that this whole action was a huge boost for women’s rights as Mary was clearly breaking a taboo of the times.  She, a woman, was assuming the role of a man in engaging her male guest in conversation.  That was a role of the man of the house; the women were supposed to be in the kitchen preparing the meal.  Jesus, in not only allowing Mary to remain in conversation with Him, but actually insisting upon it, raises the role of women to a new and unprecedented height.

 

Jesus was supposed to be scandalized by what Mary was doing, but He actually sanctions it.  Can you imagine the shocked expression on Martha’s face?  In the back of her mind, she might have been recalling God’s Word: “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, my ways are not your ways.”  Then Martha asks a question that could have been enough to break Jesus’ Sacred Heart: “LORD, do you not care?”  (Who hasn’t asked that?)  Of course He cares Martha, but not about protocol or even the food. * He cares that Mary - and you - and every other woman for that matter, should have the same opportunity as the men to sit at the Master’s feet and ponder the Word of God.  That’s what matters to Jesus; that’s what He cares most about right now.

 

Notice too, that Jesus in no way puts Martha down.  He doesn’t say that what she’s doing is menial or insignificant; just that Mary has chosen “the better part.”  It isn’t a choice between something good and something bad, but a choice between two good things … service and hospitality or prayer and contemplation.  In fact, Martha and Mary are the epitome of the religious contemplative life.  In any convent or monastery, you will see a balance each day between Martha and Mary: of time spent in prayer and contemplation and in hospitality and service – a real balance.

 

Remember, Jesus knows well these two sisters and their brother Lazarus; they were His friends.  So Jesus’ answer to Martha – as her friend - cuts right to the quick: “Martha, you are anxious and upset about many things.”  The fact that Mary isn’t helping her with the details of hospitality might not be anything new, but it might be the final straw!  Martha has reached her breaking point and Jesus clearly sees that.  There are “many things” bothering Martha that she may have been stewing about for some time.  She’s been holding it in - perhaps like the good girl she was raised to be.  Women simply don’t complain – especially to the men!  Jesus opens the floodgates by recognizing that Martha has many issues.  He admits it before she does … or even before she can!  And since He has opened that Pandora’s Box, He in essence gives Martha permission to unburden herself – to free herself from carrying this great weight upon her shoulders: “Take my yoke upon your shoulders, for my yoke is easy and my burden light.”  Come on, Martha.  Sit down and rest a spell; take a load off your feet – and your mind.  Listen to the Master.  Jesus is the pause that refreshes.

 

I’ve often wondered if the LORD got through to Martha.  Luke doesn’t say.  Does the LORD get through to us?  Busy, busy, busy.  It’s the American way of life.  If we’re going to get ahead, we’ve got to work hard, even at the expense of family, friends, and faith.  We work 50 weeks a year, 7 days a week – forgetting that even God rested on the seventh - and commanded us to do the same!  Rest, refresh, renew.  It’s God’s way of life! Let’s face it, most of us lack real balance in our life – a balance between work, recreation, and prayer – as well as a balanced diet!  Like men and women religious, we diocesan (or secular) priests are strongly advised to take a balanced approach to our lives: to spend a few hours each day in prayer and in recreation, as well as the hours we spend “working.”  It’s sound advice we would all benefit to follow.  Are we spending enough time each day refreshing ourselves in wholesome, healthy, even fun activities?  Or is life all about work, work, and more work?  Martha, Martha, Martha!

 

The bottom line point Jesus is making is: He desired Mary be granted the time to spend with Him; He also wanted Martha to freely choose to spend time with Him, too.  Jesus wants all of us – each and every one of His disciples – the Martha’s and Mary’s of today – you who have freely chosen to be here, and those who have freely chosen not to be here – to spend quality time with Him, both in private prayer at home and in public worship in Church, every Sunday – the day of rest and re-creation.  It’s quality time we all need to take for the good of our souls.  It is time well spent – with God.  It is time Martha clearly needed.  I sure hope she took it.

 

2010 C 15th Ordinary Father Kevin J Forsyth

Do This … and You Will Live!” ©

 

          If only you would heed the voice of the Lord, your God, and keep His commandments.”  If only.  Deuteronomy means second law.  The Book of Deuteronomy is not a new law replacing the original First Law.  It is a fresh look and practical application of the First Law for people living long after the time of Moses, who as you might recall was the one who received the First Law from God on Mount Sinai: the 10 Commandments. 

 

          The times had changed and what had made sense in the past now seemed irrelevant.  This led many people to disregard the whole Law, to consider it passé: “that was then, this is now.  Get with the times, God!”  Does this sound familiar? 

          The author of Deuteronomy (the Second Law) simply tried to update it, to make it timely and practical.  He tried to convey that the Law was not some relic of a far distant past inscribed on cold, stone tablets stored in an Ark.  “No,” he says, “it is something very near to you, already in your mouths and in your hearts.” 

          It sounds to me like the people didn’t have far to go to find God’s truth!  If God’s truth is that close, then there should be no difficulty in uncovering God’s will.  We already know right from wrong: it is written in our heart.  “You only have to carry it out.”  We only have to do it!

 

          The parable of the Samaritan neighbor is among the best known passages from the Gospels, even though only Luke (the physician) writes about it – probably because Luke was impressed with the Samaritan’s knowledge of first aid.  People know this parable so well we can recite it from memory; from heart.  But do we understand the heart of the parable?  It is one of the Lord’s simple masterpieces.

 

          The parable begs the question “who is my neighbor?”  It is a question posed to Jesus by a scholar of the Law - someone schooled in Biblical Law, not necessarily civil law.  If there is one thing I have learned from watching TV shows like Perry Mason or The Practice, it’s that lawyers usually don’t ask questions they don’t already know the answers to!  They already know the answers, and they know where they are going in their line of questioning.  Ah, but so does Jesus!

 

          Well, before the lawyer asks Jesus about the “neighbor,” he earnestly asks, “What must I do to inherit eternal life?”  Notice he does not ask what he must believe, or what he must accept.  He asks what he must do.  That little word is key!  Suspecting that he already knows the correct answer – again recall Deuteronomy: “it is already in your hearts,” - Jesus asks the lawyer, “What is written in the Law” (of Moses)?  “How do you read it?” - meaning ‘How do you interpret it?’  All laws need to be interpreted; that’s what lawyers and judges do: they interpret laws.  Fulfilling the words of Deuteronomy, “it is already in your hearts”, the lawyer answers flawlessly: “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, strength, and mind; and your neighbor as yourself.”  Jesus concurs then echoes the words of Moses exactly: Do this and you will live!”  Ouch!  Why “ouch”?  Stay with me and I’ll tell you why!

 

          The lawyer then asks a ‘follow-up’ question; they normally ‘reserve the right’ to do so.  “And who is my neighbor?”  Again, he already knows the answer: the Law had clearly defined ‘neighbor’ as a fellow Jew.  Would Jesus agree with the Law or would He stretch the boundaries?  Jesus answers by not answering!  What else is new?  Instead Jesus tells a classic story of a man traveling from Jerusalem to Jericho.  Actually Jesus said the man was going “down” to Jericho - and He meant it, literally!  Jericho is about 18 miles from Jerusalem and it’s all downhill: from a height of 2,500 feet above sea level to a depth of 800 feet below sea level.  It was not an easy 18 miles by any stretch of the imagination.  It was a difficult and dangerous trek, with many nooks and crannies perfect for robbers and thugs to hide in and attack from.  The story of a man beaten on this journey would be a familiar one to the Lord’s listeners: it was yesterday’s news, and it would be tomorrow’s news as well.

 

          The characters would be familiar too: the Temple Priest; a Levite (the priest’s Temple assistant), and a Samaritan, a resident of the town of Samaria, a people who shared many of the same beliefs as Jews but were considered heretics because they intermarried freely with pagans.  The Jews hated the Samaritans.  In the parable, Jesus makes a Samaritan the hero of the story, which is remarkable in itself given that Jesus was just rejected from visiting Samaria!  We don’t want your kind here!

 

          We often judge the priest and the Levite harshly because they failed to help the beaten man - but they were only following the Law of Moses!  If the injured man, whose identity is never revealed, was indeed dead and they touched him, they would be ritually unclean and would be unable to perform their Temple duties for 30 days!  (No priest for 30 days!  Some might see that as a good thing!)  The Jews listening to Jesus tell this story would have sympathized with both priest and Levite.  No one would have condemned them for their decision to “walk on by.”

 

          As the story unfolds, it is the Lord’s intention to demonstrate that sometimes following the Law prevents us doing the right thing.  A Samaritan spots the injured man and not being bound by the Law of Moses, he is free to assist him.  He can and does – do the right thing.  Jesus then asks the lawyer, “in your opinion;” not his professional interpretation of the Law as Jesus asked earlier; now Jesus wants his personal opinion - what is your gut feeling: who was the true neighbor to the injured man?  Again, the lawyer knows deep down in his heart the right answer: “The one who treated him with mercy.”  Notice the lawyer does not say, “The Samaritan.”  He can’t quite admit it, but he does say “the one who treated him with mercy.”  Still, it took courage to say what he did!  Why?  Because this is not what Moses taught!  Pleased with the lawyer’s answer, Jesus says, “Then go and do the same.”  Do the right thing.  Compassionate love trumps the Law!

 

My friends, this has tremendous implications for us and how we treat others.  What Jesus did for the lawyer He does for us: He changes the definition of the word neighbor.  The Law defined neighbor as a fellow Jew.  Compassion defines neighbor by what we do; not who we are or where we live, or whether or not we like someone.  There are no limits to love or love’s forbearance. 

 

          In this Gospel passage, Jesus gives us a lesson in true charity.  Charity is defined as compassionate love (mercy).  In fact, Paul tells us that the three greatest gifts are faith, hope, and love.  Some translations say faith, hope and charity.  Love and charity are the same.  Charity then is an act of love.  Charity is something we do when we don’t have to do it - that which is above and beyond what God asks of us.  The priest and Levite did not have to stop and help the man, and they didn’t.  The Samaritan did not have to stop and help the man, but he did.  He did what he did not have to do: he practiced charity - compassionate love!

 

          Jesus, not someone to ever waste a teaching moment, nor a good example, continues the story: there is more to learn.  Not only does the Samaritan do something that is not required of him, he offers to do more.  How much more?  Well, how much is enough?  The Samaritan stopped and dressed the man’s wounds, but was that enough?  He took him to safety to an Inn, but was that enough?  He paid for the man’s stay, but was that enough?  He even volunteered to come back and do more!  He did all this out of charity - compassionate love – beyond what the Law of God required of him. 

 

          Come on!  This must sound familiar.  All of us act out of compassionate love for the people we love: our parents, siblings, children, close friends – even our pets!  If the rectory were on fire, I wouldn’t think twice about rushing in to save Dakota and Gracie.  Of course, that’s not the sensible thing to do – but love trumps common sense.  We never put limits on what we do for our loved ones because love doesn’t let us place limits.  What grandparent says to their grandchild, who is looking for another hug, “Sorry, I’ve hugged you ten times today; that’s the limit.  See me tomorrow.”  Love doesn’t allow limits.  We routinely practice compassionate love for the people we love; we just need to learn to do it for the people we don’t love – or like – or even know.  And the more compassionate love we give, the more we receive. 

 

          Deuteronomy teaches us that our real understanding of the right thing to do is already in our hearts.  The priest, the Levite, and even the Lord’s audience all knew in their hearts that the beaten man needed help, that someone ought to help him.  But they felt caught between a rock and a hard place: between the Law written on stone tablets, and the hardness of their stony hearts.  Yet they all knew the right thing to do: they only needed to do it!

 

          “Lord, what must I do to inherit eternal life?”  “Love the Lord your God will all your heart, being, strength, and mind; and your neighbor as yourself.  Do this and … you … will … live!”

 

2010 C 14th Ordinary – July 4th Father Kevin J Forsyth

A Sacred and Undeniable Right to Life” ©

 

          “Rejoice with Jerusalem and be glad because of her, all you who love her.”  In today’s passage from Isaiah, the prophet sings of the end of exile and of Jerusalem’s children returning to their cherished land; their time of trial and sorrow is ended, the nation is returning to life!  When I read this Scripture passage as I prepared for today’s homily - on the 4th of July - I couldn’t help but think of … us!  Listen again as I change the original location of Jerusalem: “Rejoice with America and be glad because of her, all you who love her.” 

 

          While we commemorate our independence today, there really wasn’t much celebrating back in 1776 – 234 years ago – when the Representatives of the original 13 colonies signed their names to the Declaration of Independence.  At the time, most of them thought they were signing it with their blood! 

 

          Drafted by Thomas Jefferson between June 11th and June 28th, 1776, the Declaration of Independence is at once the nation's most cherished symbol of liberty and Jefferson's most enduring monument.  Here, in exalted and treasured words, Jefferson expressed the convictions in the minds and hearts of colonial Americans.

 

          The political philosophy of the Declaration was not new; its ideals of individual liberty had already been expressed by John Locke and the Continental philosophers.  What Jefferson did was to summarize this philosophy in “sacred and undeniable truths” – a phrase he was asked to rewrite as “self-evident truths” - and set forth a list of grievances against the King of England, George III, in order to justify before the world the breaking of ties between the colonies and the mother country.

 

          Just as when Isaiah proclaimed that a new day had dawned, when “prosperity would flow like a river,” the signers of our Declaration were filled with hope for a new America.  That hope preceded the signing - as the American Revolutionary War had already begun on April 19, 1775 and would last eight years until September 3, 1783.  It would be almost six more years before our George – Washington - would take the oath of office as our first President.

 

          With courage and unanimity, it was “in Congress, on July 4, 1776, the unanimous Declaration of the thirteen united States of America, (proclaimed) when in the course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature's God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.

 

        We hold these truths to be “self-evident” (originally “sacred and undeniable”), that all men are created equal, that they are endowed “by their Creator” (originally “from that equal creation”) with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are (originally included “the preservation of”) Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.

 

 

          We, therefore, the Representatives of the United States of America, in General Congress, assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions, do … solemnly publish and declare, that these United Colonies are, and of Right ought to be, Free and Independent States; … And for the support of this Declaration, (added - “with a firm reliance on the protection of divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes and our sacred Honor.”

 

          Our forefathers most certainly did believe in God and boldly declared so in Jefferson’s masterpiece.  Although the words “sacred and undeniable” were changed to “self-evident”, the words “from that equal creation” were changed to “by their Creator” – a change that placed the focus on the Creator and not on the creation.

 

          Another interesting rewrite came with the phrase “life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.”  It had a brief preface; it originally was written as “the preservation of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.”  As I read it, the original phrase highlighted the continuation of life that already existed; the removal of those three words placed the focus on life itself – all life – as created by the aforementioned Creator.

 

          Isaiah rejoiced at God’s restoration of the city of Jerusalem.  Previously, armies had laid siege to the city.  Now foreigners would bring gifts instead of destruction.  Two verses before our passage for today began, Isaiah asked, “Can a country be brought forth in one day, or a nation be born in a single moment?”  We might ask that same question as we reflect on our American independence.  It might seem as if our nation were born on July 4, 1776, but it would, in fact, be almost 13 years later – in 1789 - before a real nation were to begin. 

 

          With the signing of the Declaration, a revolutionary war begun 15 months earlier would escalate and intensify; thousands of soldiers on both sides would die – their blood would serve as the stimulant of a new indivisible nation - conceived in liberty (on July 4, 1776) - under God – with “justice for all” as its ideal. 

 

          On April 30, 1789, General George Washington was sworn in as our first president.  The inaugural ceremony took place in the open gallery of the old City Hall (later called Federal Hall) on Wall Street, in New York City, in the presence of a vast multitude.  As the oath of office was administered, the President laid his hand on an open Bible with his Vice President John Adams standing nearby. 

 

          After taking his oath of office, Washington kissed the Bible reverently, closed his eyes and in an attitude of devotion said: “So help me God.”  The Chancellor exclaimed, “It is done” and turning to the people he shouted, “Long live George Washington, the first President of the United States.”  Then the president and the others walked in procession to Saint Paul’s Chapel where they invoked the blessing of God upon our new government.  Oh yeah, I believe they believed in God – what they clearly did not believe in was independence from God.  God bless America!

 

2010 C 13th Ordinary Father Kevin J Forsyth

“Love Is Surrender” ©

 

          “I will follow you wherever you go.”  Today we hear stories of “calls” from God, and the various responses people gave Him.  All of these people will learn that their personal “yes” to God will require personal sacrifice.  Their responses are not always immediate nor without stipulations.

 

          The cost of following Jesus is made clear to us as we hear of the Lord’s encounter with three potential disciples.  Instead of welcoming them with open arms, “Sure, come on along!” Jesus warns them of the seriousness of being His disciple.  He wants to make clear they know what they are getting themselves into.

 

          To the first potential disciple Jesus says that even though the foxes and the birds have a place to rest, He – Jesus - has nowhere to call home.  His warning: expect the same.  If I don’t have a home, chances are you won’t either!  So don’t come complaining to me later on.

 

          To the second potential disciple, who merely wants to bury his father (whom we presume to be dead), Jesus responds with one of His most bizarre answers: “Let the dead bury their dead.”  What?  Jesus is not saying that we should cold-heartedly turn our backs on our dying or deceased parents, for that would be contrary to … which Commandment?  The fourth: “honor your father and mother.”  No, Jesus is simply doing what Jesus always does, turning an ordinary moment into a teaching moment.  He is teaching about the radical-ness of the Kingdom of God, a Kingdom of eternal life, not death.  Leave the dead to the dead – here Jesus means those who do not believe in eternal life, for they are already dead.  Your life, as my disciple, must be concerned with life, not death!  Lakiem!  To life!

 

          To the third and final potential disciple, Jesus explains that he will have to follow Him now.  Jesus is moving on; He can’t wait for indecisive people.  If they want to follow Him, they must do so now – in the present – not tomorrow, for we all know tomorrow never comes: “I’ll start my new diet tomorrow.”  All we have – all we ever have – is the present!  “Carpe diem” – seize the day.  The Jews of Jesus’ day had a saying, “If not now, when?”  Jesus said, “The Kingdom of God is at hand”; what on earth are you waiting for - a divine invitation?  We have it!

 

          In the first reading from the Book of Kings, we hear of another call and response.  As his service as a prophet of God is coming to an end, Elijah is sent by God to commission his own successor, Elisha, a very wealthy man as evidenced by his 12 yoke of oxen!  If you had 12 yoke of oxen 2,000 years ago, you were a very rich man!  Elijah “threw his cloak” over the shoulders of Elisha (kind of reminiscent of our childhood game of “Tag – you’re it” signaling a transfer of power; Elisha clearly recognizes the symbolism of this gesture – and he accepts!  However, as his immediate concern is for his loved ones and not for himself, he begs permission to bid farewell to his parents.  Elijah grants his request, “Go back!”

 

          Elisha’s “yes” to God seems to come easily, but this divine commission does not obliterate his life; he must still tie up some loose ends and work out the practicalities of his altered life.  And boy oh boy, does he make some profound changes!  One of the most striking aspects about Elisha’s response is the totality of his assent.  He uses the tools of his trade as firewood to prepare a farewell Bar-B-Q.  He makes a complete break with his past by slaughtering his oxen - there goes his fortune! - and using his plowing equipment as fuel for the fire to cook the meat to feed the people.

 

After the Bar-B-Q, there will be nothing left.  Elisha leaves his past behind in smoke and destroys any ability to return to his former life.  This is an awesome Biblical example of a complete and unreserved response to God’s call.  Elisha destroys the tools of his trade and leaves absolutely nothing to fall back on should this new calling not work out for him.  God has called him and Elisha entrusts his whole future to God.  What an incredible act of faith!

 

          Few of us would do such a thing, (even I have my own condo) but then again, few would ever be asked to do such a thing.  We each follow the Lord as best we can, given our own life circumstances.  But there is one thing we all can learn from Elisha: if we want lasting inner peace, the only way we will attain it is to surrender completely to God’s Will, by following His teachings and allowing God to make of us what He wants, not what we want.  With all due respect to the “Chairman of the Board” - Frank Sinatra - at the end of our life, we should not be singing “I did it my way;” we should be singing “I did it God’s way.”

 

          In the 1970’s, Carroll O’Connor, a faithful and generous Catholic gentleman very convincingly portrayed a grumpy, bigoted Protestant in the person of Archie Bunker.  I remember a funny exchange between Archie and his neighbor George Jefferson.  Archie firmly believed that he was number one.  George believed that he was number one.  “We both can’t be number one,” exclaimed Archie.  Right you are, Arch!  We can’t all be number one.  Maybe that’s why God wrote - as His First Commandment, “I am the Lord your God, you shall have no other gods besides me.”  “I’m number one,” says God - end of discussion!  It is the wise and learned person who does not argue this point with the Almighty!

 

          Thankfully, we do not have to burn our bridges as Elisha did, for we live in families and with modern day responsibilities.  But, if we surrender our will, if we reorganize our priorities and make God first in our lives, then we will achieve and enjoy Christ’s farewell gift to us: His peace.  We will prosper, and not merely survive.  I’ll repeat that line, as it is key to the Gospel: if we place God first in our lives, we will prosper, not merely survive. You know, the challenge in following Christ is rarely a choice between an absolute good and an absolute evil.  More often than not, it is a choice between two potential goods: following God’s Will or following our own will.  The question is: do we trust the Lord enough to surrender to His Will?  As the song says, “Love is surrender.”

 

2010 12th Ordinary C Father Kevin J Forsyth

“Who Do You Say That Jesus Is?” ©

 

          “Who do the crowds say that I am?”  Jesus knew people were talking about Him and He asks His disciples to ‘fess up’ with what they know.  Let’s face it people talk about people.  We fascinate each other.  Priests know parishioners talk about us.  You want to know something?  We talk about you too – except what we hear in the Confessional.  It has been said, “Great minds talk about issues; average minds talk about events; small minds talk about people.  What do you talk about?”  Makes you think, doesn’t it?  I’ll bet it doesn’t make us stop talking though!

 

          So, people were talking about Jesus – that’s not a surprise.  Depending on whom you talked with, the things you heard varied.  Most people liked Him; some even worshipped the ground he walked on!  Some people despised Him; they even wished Him dead.  And they got their wish – for a few days anyway.  Then He came back … not to haunt them, but to forgive them.  What a guy! 

 

In today’s Gospel, His disciples tell Jesus only some of the good things the people had been calling Him - they don’t tell Him any of the bad stuff.  Some said Jesus was Elijah; some said He was John the Baptist.  Now, calling Jesus the new Elijah was understandable, but calling Him John the Baptist - come back from the dead?  Come on!  Jesus and His cousin were contemporaries; they grew up together; people saw them together.  How on earth could Jesus suddenly become His beheaded cousin?  It just goes to show you how wrong people can be.

 

          Was Jesus the new Elijah?  The original Elijah had departed this earth many moons earlier, in a whirlwind assumption into heaven.  Did you think Mary was the first one assumed into heaven?  Nope - not the first, just maybe the most famous!  It was expected that Elijah would return at the end of time to announce and usher in the promised Kingdom of God.  John the Baptist had been one of those who called Jesus the new and promised Elijah.  Jesus begged to differ with His beloved cousin.  Jesus said John the Baptist was the new Elijah!  Was John right or was Jesus right?  My money is on Jesus!  I believe Jesus was right!  I always believe He’s right!

 

          Jesus doesn’t spend much time on the topic of what the people were saying about Him; He cuts right to the quick: “Who do you say that I am?”  Jesus isn’t just saying that the opinions of His disciples mean more to Him than the others; it’s important for His disciples to know exactly who they are following - and why.  It is Peter who speaks: you are “The Christ of God!”  I’ve said it before that I just love Peter.  Normally, he says the wrong thing at the wrong time.  Peter could be the patron saint of “open mouth, insert foot!”  Well, good ol’ Peter must have tasted his foot more times than he’d care to recall.  I love Peter because I can relate to him; we both have walked in the same shoes.  Perhaps you’ve borrowed those shoes?  But today, Peter says exactly the right answer at the right moment.  And what is the Lord’s response?  Jesus rebuked him.  What?  Peter finally gets the right answer and Jesus rebukes him – He rebukes them all!  What’s going on here?

 

          This episode signals the beginning of the Lord’s long journey to Jerusalem – where He will die; from this point on, Jesus is on His way to His Cross.  Everything He says and does is another step toward Golgotha, where He will demonstrate perfect obedience, love and self-sacrifice.  If this Lenten image seems too grim for Ordinary Time, we need only thank God that we know more than the Lord’s first disciples knew when they heard His dire prediction.  At least we know that beyond the Cross lies the empty tomb and resurrection.  They did not yet know that.

 

          In their answer to the question, “Who do you say that I am?” Jesus rebukes His disciples because they need to grow in this knowledge before getting all excited about being with the promised Messiah.  They need to become fully aware of all the implications of His true identity and their discipleship.  In order that no false message is sent out by any of the disciples, Jesus immediately rebukes them all and orders them to keep silent.  Until they know who and what they’re talking about, keep quiet.  This is sound advice for any of us!  The Lord’s advice will prevent any misunderstanding until such a time when the full meaning of the Lord’s identity is completely understood.  That time will come only after the resurrection.

 

          It doesn’t take Jesus the Teacher long to break open that full meaning.  He proceeds to spell out, in what must have seemed very strange terms, the ramifications of being “the Christ of God.”  In their minds “Christ” meant “anointed one” and “kingship” and “royalty”.  Jesus explains that it means “blood, suffering, death, and resurrection”.  In their minds, “Christ” meant “power and prestige”.  Jesus tells them it means “servant-hood and sacrifice”.  It is only after they (and we, for that matter) have arrived at a mature faith and a deeper understanding and have adopted an attitude similar to Jesus’ in our every thought, word, and deed, that they (and we) can lead others on the right path to Christ and His Kingdom, and until we can, button up!  It’s that important; know who you’re talking about!  Jesus says, Can the blind lead the blind?  Shall not both fall into the ditch?”

 

          “Who do you say that I am?”  Jesus asked His disciples of the first century that question and Jesus asks His disciples of the 21st century, too.  Who do we say Jesus is?  Is His Name sacred to us, or do we toss it about like a baseball?  Is His Eucharist important to us – important enough to make it at least a once-a-week event – like food shopping - or is it a once-a-year necessity like going to the dentist?  Does what Jesus lived and died for have meaning to us? 

 

          Jesus says, “If anyone wishes to come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.”  We live in an age when people not only fail to deny themselves anything, we seek all we can possibly attain.  Experts agree this is precisely the attitude which caused the financial collapse of the world economy.  Perhaps it’s time we listen to the LORD and do as He says – deny ourselves - even just a little to start – and embrace our cross – whatever it may be – and truly follow Him.  Doing that would surely tell the world who Jesus is in our life.  Actions do speak louder than words.  May our actions speak honestly and proudly of who Jesus is in our life! 

 

2010 C 11th Ordinary Father Kevin J Forsyth

“Sin, Repentance and God’s Merciful Forgiveness” ©

 

          “LORD, forgive the wrong I have done.”  That was the refrain for the psalm today and I thought it was a timely and appropriate sentiment as we conclude this “Year for Priests.”  “LORD, forgive the wrong I have done.”

 

          Nathan, God’s prophet, said to David – King David – Jesus’ great, great (etc) grandfather, “Thus says the LORD God: ‘I anointed you King of Israel.  Why have you spurned the LORD and done evil in His sight?’”  It’s as if Nathan is saying to David, “How could you?”  Today we hear that King David has done evil in God’s sight.  What exactly did David do?  You don’t want to know.  Or do you?

 

          Well, long story short, David lusted for Bathsheba while she bathed, wanted her and decided to make her his own.  The problem is, Bathsheba is the wife of Uriah, a soldier with unimpeachable loyalty to King David.  David, allowing his passion to get the best of him, quickly exchanges voyeurism for betrayal and treachery.  He writes a letter to Joab, Israel’s field commander, in which he orders that Uriah be placed on the front lines of the battle, where Uriah will surely be ‘killed in action.’  Ironically, it is Uriah who hand-delivers King David’s sealed orders to Commander Joab. 

 

          In addition to committing the sins of lust and homicide, David also suffers the sins of adultery and hypocrisy.  Yet, in spite of all these sins, God does forgive a very repentant David.  When Nathan confronts David, his repentance is immediate and sincere.  While this episode is not the proudest moment in the life of Jesus’ great, great (etc) grandfather, it does point to the love, mercy and forgiveness of God our Father, who waits patiently for all His children to come to Him with repentant hearts.

 

          A crucial point in this Biblical passage that gets overlooked – and shouldn’t is when Nathan says to David, “Now, therefore, the sword shall never depart from your house.”  This is a prophecy from Nathan, not a capricious punishment from God; it is an inevitable consequence resulting from David’s own sinful acts.  Even though David repents, there are consequences put into motion which can not be reversed.  Nathan’s prophecy was accurate – generation after generation of David’s linage did, in fact, see the painful fulfillment of this prophecy – including the Lord’s own mother Mary, whose heart - at His crucifixion - was “pierced like a sword.”

 

          To understand this fundamental and essential point, I’ll use myself as an example.  Over the last several years, I’ve gained a few pounds (at least 50), a direct result of my having consumed too many calories each day.  If I’m to be honest with myself and with you, I have a food addiction.  My conditions of 1) being obese (and God, I hate that word!) and 2) having diabetes are direct results of my eating too much food; they are not punishments from God (“I’ll make you fat and sick” – no!)  They are the results of my food addiction, not something God has done to punish me.

 

          Another example: In the late 1980’s, some people - good people - rushed to judgment saying that the AIDS epidemic was God’s judgment wrought against certain individuals or groups.  I can assure you, God is not sitting on His Heavenly Throne dispensing viruses and diseases to people who might be ticking Him off!  If that were the case, I think we’d all be in jeopardy, for who here has never offended God?

 

I do not work for, nor do I believe in, such a vindictive God.  The HIV virus is spread by promiscuous, often anonymous, sex with someone who has the virus; or from drug addicts who share the same needles; or most sadly, in Utero from an infected mother to her baby.  Now I hope we can all agree God is not “out to get” the babies!

 

          You may have heard by now of a widely read book entitled The Shack.  The book is about a father of a family who has experienced a serious personal tragedy.  As a result, the father is bitter toward God, partially blaming God for the tragedy – a reaction many people feel in the face of tragedy.  One day, the father finds an invitation in his mailbox from God to spend a weekend with the three Persons of the Blessed Trinity – in a shack in the woods.  In the course of the weekend, the father has extensive talks about many religious topics. 

 

          As a result of the recent tragedy, the first topic the father wants to deal with is God’s handing out punishments for sin.  The father asks, “If you are God, aren’t you the one spilling out great bowls of wrath and throwing people in a burning lake of fire?  Isn’t that what the Bible tells us?”  God the Father, given the name “Papa” in the book responds, “I don’t need to punish people for sin.  Sin is its own punishment, devouring you from the inside.  It’s not my purpose to punish; it’s my joy to cure.”

 

          Actually, it’s not surprising that many people feel the way that the father of the family does.  After all, our Catechism does define sin as an “offense against God.”  Therefore, it stands to reason that God might want to retaliate in some way - that is our human reaction; but God is not like us!  In addition, the Old Testament does relate many occasions when God did indeed punish people for their sins.  But, “that was then, this is now” - a now of almost 2,000 years when people are redeemed by the blood of the Lamb!  Why is it people – why is it Christians - keep forgetting Christ and His Cross?  God is no longer in the “I’m going to get you for that” business!  God sold the business - and the purchase price was the Crucifixion of His Son!

 

          We can – and do – still offend God when we abuse what God has created – and abusing God’s creation leads to suffering in some way.  The crisis of the Gulf coast is a prime and immediate example; not only are humans suffering in many ways, animals are suffering too: wildlife, birds, fish, shrimp, etc.  They’re all affected.

 

          We see this insight confirmed in Nathan’s pronouncement of judgment against King David.  David’s crimes – his sins – were crimes of violence against Uriah and Uriah’s wife.  They could not be undone.  As is often the case, violence begets more violence and Nathan’s curse is a witness to this usual sequence of events – none of which God caused, but because of the unwillingness of people to accept responsibility for their own actions, most often times God is the one who gets blamed!  It is the ultimate “cop-out!”  Will we ever stop blaming God? 

 

          In The Shack at the end of the first day, Papa (God) tells the father, “Your real flaw is that you don’t think I’m good.  If you knew I was good and that everything – the means, the ends, and all the events of human lives – is all covered by my goodness, then while you might not always understand what I’m doing, you would trust me.  But you don’t.”  Our money says, “In God We Trust,” but do we trust in God’s mercy and forgiveness - and if not, why not?  Hey, maybe that’s God’s fault, too!

 

 



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